Hello there - thank you for checking in to find out about us! I am Canadian - my name is Barbara and I was born in Lancashire, England, and moved to Canada when I was 22. This page is all about us, me and my family!
My first husband, Andy, and I met in 1971 when I was 16 and he was 19, in the industrial town of Oldham, Lancashire.
We "courted" and then got married in 1973 - I know, we were young, but that's what we did in those days!
Andy was a Police Officer on the Greater Manchester Police Force - yes, he was a Bobby!
We both worked hard in those early years of marriage, but it was difficult for young couples like us to "get ahead".
Our son Dan was born in 1976 but unfortunately the economy in the UK was terrible at that time, so we decided to inquire about emigration to another country.
We considered moving to Australia (too hot), and New Zealand (too far) and South Africa (we didn't like Apartheid) and also Canada which we really liked the sound of.
We did our home-work, looked at all the different Provinces - we selected Ontario because of its good economy and job opportunities. In the summer of 1977 we took a two week holiday and came here to check things out.
WE LOVED CANADA!
We returned to England, submitted all the paperwork, put our house on the market and waited to get the go-ahead to emigrate!
Of course, our friends and some of our family who were about us were really encouraging
"You can't just pack up and leave - you'll be back in six months!"
and
"You're doing What! You'll be back - you'll get home-sick!"
BUT WE WERE UNDETERRED!
Our catch-phrase was - You are guaranteed success, when failure is not an option!
The Early Years - 1977 .....
The economy in Britain in the late 1970's had been worsening, and we had looked about us and realized that for us, things may never improve to the point that we would like.
It had not been easy to make the life-changing decision to leave the UK behind and make the move to Canada, but after a long immigration process, we bid our families "Good-bye" and came here to live in Ontario in November 1977.
We had arrived with three suitcases, a baby AND a strong desire to succeed!
As we arrived on an overcast winter day and I stepped out of Toronto Airport, I had a profound sense of having come home.
This feeling stayed, and so did we. Canada is a wonderful country where immigrants from around the world can come and make their home.
Boy, were we scared, but we were excited to have made such a change - we had left behind our families and our friends, quit our jobs and sold our house and car, but the world was our oyster and we settled in
Brantford
, Ontario, where we lived for our first year in this country.
We overcame the initial language barrier - don’t laugh - you thought that coming from England to Canada there wouldn’t be a language barrier, but think again, I spoke with a strong Lancashire accent and HERE they spoke Canadian and no one had written a dictionary to help me!
I was lonely, and I missed my parents and brothers, and in fact, I'm told that I stated once, that if there had been a bridge I would have walked back!
In reality, it took just a short time for us to make friends with the many friendly Canadians that we met and we soon felt at home in our new country.
We found Canadian people to be very welcoming and friendly to our lonely little family.
Northern Ontario, here we come!
After living in the city of Brantford for our first year, we moved to Northern Ontario, to the gold mining community of Timmins, as my husband had been hired on the Police Department there, where we stayed for four years.
It was hard to imagine anything more different than England!
Timmins is an 8 hour drive, north from Toronto and it is very different from Oldham! We did settle in nicely though, thanks to the kindness of the wonderful friends and neighbours we met.
We found the people of Northern Ontario to be friendly folks who were self-sufficient and welcoming to our little family who were so very far from "home".
Our second child, a daughter, was born in Timmins - we called her "the first branch on our Canadian Family Tree".
We also bought our first Canadian home in Timmins, and we were happy there. The long, Northern winters were new to us, but we adapted.
We tried Cross Country Skiing and Snowmobiling too - we had to do something to pass the time during the long winters.
Our first Canadian home was a frame house that had wooden siding on the outside. That was very different to the brick, terraced houses which are common in England.
It was a detached 3-bedroom house with a cozy basement, on a quiet street and we thought that house prices in Canada were quite low as it cost us $40,000 Canadian dollars at that time.
It was snug and warm throughout our first northern winter - Andy even bought a chain-saw so he could chop wood for the basement fireplace! He bought a red flannel shirt and thought he was a Lumberjack!
In Timmins we saw wolves out in the country (you don’t see those in Lancashire!), porcupines in the bush, and black bears out at the city dump.
It was a different world for us, but it was a world that we loved and made our home.
Load up the Truck Honey, we're heading South .....
In 1982, after 4 years in the North, we decided that it was time to move back to Southwestern Ontario, where the winters were shorter, the summers were warmer and the black-flies were non-existent!
We were very excited and looked forward to the move south to Hubby's new job in
St Thomas
We packed all our worldly goods, loaded up the U-Haul Truck, buckled the kids in the car and headed down highway 11 for the sunny south - Southern Ontario, that is!
We had decided to move to St Thomas where Andy had been hired on the Police Department. St Thomas was for us, the perfect place to live, it was close to the beautiful sandy beaches on Lake Erie, 10 minutes from the city of London with its shopping, museums & Art Galleries, and less than 2 hours along highway 401 to Toronto.
World-famous Niagara Falls is just a 2 hour drive away,
London
, Ontario, with a population of over 300,000 is 15 minutes by car - we thought life was wonderful - and it was.
St Thomas was big enough to have all the facilities we wanted - a large Hospital, good schools, shopping, restaurants, two skating rinks, and so on, and yet it was small enough to be friendly and a place where people were neighbourly, shopkeepers were courteous and life seemed to pass at a pleasantly slow pace.
In the autumn of 1990, when our children were in their early teens, my dear hubby was diagnosed with a particularly nasty form of bone cancer, and after 2 years of chemotherapy, radiation treatments & amputation, he died in 1992 at the age of 40.
I had lost my best friend and I thought my life was over and that I would never laugh again.
The next exciting chapter .....
Well, Fate had a card or two up her sleeve, and three years later I was walking down the aisle with Casey, hubby number two, a lovely Dutchman this time, who was also widowed young like me, and who also had two teens of his own.
Case had arrived in Canada from Holland in 1969 with two of his brothers. At that time they had three sisters living in the St Thomas area, with whom they were able to live for a while.
Well, we were married in 1995, bought a big house and formed our Mega-Family.
Two years later we welcomed our new daughter, Rebecca, into our home.
I often think it must be difficult for teen-agers to tell their parents that they are expecting a baby, but you should try being parents who have to tell four teen-agers that they are expecting a baby!
There are 21 years between our eldest child, Dan, and our youngest child, Rebecca, but I always say that you never know what life has in store, so when happiness comes along, grab it!
We often look about us, and think how very lucky we are. We now live on a 9 acre property just outside St Thomas where we raise poultry and pygmy goats.
Life is busy at our house - we Home-School our daughter Becky, we're Foster Parents, we all volunteer for various organizations in our community, hubby and I teach Snowmobile Safety to teens, and we have three beautiful, adorable grand-daughters.
We have a great lifestyle in this country, and are both thankful that Canada has been a great country to live and to raise our families.
Our daughter, Rebecca's first Halloween
2007 . . . . . . My Passion!
The next exciting installment of our story is captured on our
My Passion
page - don't worry, there is nothing X-rated about it!
My first husband, Andy, and I met in 1971 when I was 16 and he was 19, in the industrial town of Oldham, Lancashire. 
Andy was a Police Officer on the Greater Manchester Police Force - yes, he was a Bobby! 
Boy, were we scared, but we were excited to have made such a change - we had left behind our families and our friends, quit our jobs and sold our house and car, but the world was our oyster and we settled in
It was hard to imagine anything more different than England!
Our first Canadian home was a frame house that had wooden siding on the outside. That was very different to the brick, terraced houses which are common in England.
We packed all our worldly goods, loaded up the U-Haul Truck, buckled the kids in the car and headed down highway 11 for the sunny south - Southern Ontario, that is! 
Well, we were married in 1995, bought a big house and formed our Mega-Family.
